Better Than Secret

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I came across this great article from OM Times. I hope you find it of value.

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5 Phrase to Eliminate from Your Vocabulary Today

Are Your Words and Phrases Stopping You From Having Everything You Want?

by Gary Douglas

“Think before you speak” is more of a truth than we realize. Most of us are unaware of how language creates our life.

Asking for a new job or a relationship and having it show up requires more than just positive thinking, according to Access Consciousness® founder Gary Douglas, who works with people worldwide on how to use language to create what they truly desire.

The words and phrases you use have a vibration. The first language on earth is energy.

If your life is not how you would like it to be, you can change your life by changing the words and phrases you use every day.

Most of us are unaware that we are entrained to use words and phrases that limit us.

The universe is literal. We are still using words and phrases that have a surprising power to stop our creations.

This is one reason the Law of Attraction tools and positive thinking often don’t work,” asserts Douglas.

 

  1. Stop saying ‘I want…’ There are 26 (pre-1946) dictionary definitions of ‘want’, which mean ‘to lack’. Ask: What would it take for me to have a new job or a new relationship that is fun for me?” instead.
  2. When you say ‘I am sick and tired of….’ you are creating yourself as sick and tired. If you find yourself saying this, ask: ‘What am I sick and tired of?’ and then change it!
  3. The Secret misused the word ‘manifesting’. Nothing show ups because we are asking for ‘how something shows up’! “I am manifesting…” actually means “I am how it shows up…” Instead ask for what you would like to ‘actualize’ (meaning to bring into physical existence). ‘What would it take for me to actualize more money than I can spend?’
  4. ‘Why’ is a question that takes you around in circles (you know this – every two year-old has taken you there.) Instead ask: ‘What would it take for this to be different?’ or ‘What else is possible?’ and watch your choices change.
  5. ‘Try’ is an illusion that you are choosing something when that is not what you are actually choosing – try and stand up… Instead you have to ask a question that will allow you to make a choice. “How can I change this? or “What would it take for me to receive this?” will open a door to a different choice and a different possibility.

“Any dictionary from pre-1946 will allow you to choose your words with awareness of what they truly mean,” advises Douglas. “And you will create more by asking questions that allow the universe to

“Any dictionary from pre-1946 will allow you to choose your words with awareness of what they truly mean,” advises Douglas. “And you will create more by asking questions that allow the universe to

deliver something that is even greater than what you have imagined. Asking ‘When will my new silver BMW show up?” is not a question.

It is a conclusion with a question mark attached. ‘What will it take to have a new car that is fast, beautiful and fun for me to drive?’ is a question that allows you to bring into existence what you would truly like to create.”

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15 thoughts on “Better Than Secret

  1. Earth Angel says:

    I LOVE THIS! A great summary!

  2. Wonderful. It really is about how what we think, feel and say influences what comes to us in the world. I enjoyed this one.

    • Thanks Christy. I have been watching my words all weekend. Went to Boise Idaho for work and roomed with a friend, instead of speaking a negative I would rephrase it, “When I actualize, more money than I can spend.” lol

  3. All great and wise words… I have the Secret and the video.. And it so true how we often sabotage ourselves with how we think and use our vocabulary..
    I point it out often to my Hubby in his habits of his use of Negativity.. Then he throws it right back at me double time when I make the same slips.. LOL…
    Life is always for learning.. And Oh if we had it perfected we would no longer need the Earth School. 🙂 ❤

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